Hello everyone (if anyone is out there). I consider myself pretty technologically savvy. However, I am embarrassed to say that I have never participated in a blog prior to today. Yep, I'm no longer a blogger virgin. I'm going to talk about my hope in this terrible economy to thrive in a home based business as a stay at home mom.
Let me tell you a little bit about myself. I like to think of myself as reasonably educated by today's standards. I have a Bachelor's Degree in Criminal Justice with a Forensic Emphasis and a Psychology minor. I also have three young children (4yrs, 15 months x2), who have completely changed my life. Don't get me wrong, I love my children, but also appreciate using my brain and trying to making a difference in the world. Nowadays, that seems non-existent. I had to quit my job at the local police department when my husband and I had our second and third children (yes, twins). Much to my surprise (not really) I didn't have the energy and the attention to detail required to continue. I was heartbroken to say the least. My ideal and dream job fizzled away. But I will never say that I regret having children. They are my life and soul. They make me get up each morning and strive to be a better parent, a better person. Does my situation sound familiar to anyone?
Let me tell you a little bit about myself. I like to think of myself as reasonably educated by today's standards. I have a Bachelor's Degree in Criminal Justice with a Forensic Emphasis and a Psychology minor. I also have three young children (4yrs, 15 months x2), who have completely changed my life. Don't get me wrong, I love my children, but also appreciate using my brain and trying to making a difference in the world. Nowadays, that seems non-existent. I had to quit my job at the local police department when my husband and I had our second and third children (yes, twins). Much to my surprise (not really) I didn't have the energy and the attention to detail required to continue. I was heartbroken to say the least. My ideal and dream job fizzled away. But I will never say that I regret having children. They are my life and soul. They make me get up each morning and strive to be a better parent, a better person. Does my situation sound familiar to anyone?
Going along with my monotonous daily routine and the infrequency of speaking to adults, I have lost my brain. My expensive, college educated brain. After having children, there is no longer time to read books, watch educational television, or even watch poorly-made movies. Now I watch the occasional Dora the Explorer and the ever-repeating kids movie Up, thanks to my 4 year old. There is hardly time to take a short shower, let alone a relaxing bath. My husband works his tail off at his job and at home. We are both burning the candle at both ends. I knew there had to be an area for personal growth that could be made to benefit myself and my family.
I think I've found it. This blog will be my work diary to catalog my successes and challenges as my role as a working stay-at-home mom. I personally want to invite you along in this journey to keep me motivated and accountable. Perhaps you can even try it yourself and we can grow together.
Wish me luck!
Leslie Marin
Luck! I'll be following ya Leslie!
ReplyDeleteThanks for being my first follower! I hope I keep your interest. See you around, Rachelle!
ReplyDeleteObviously we've all gone a thousand different ways since high school...but I'm glad you've found a way to be engaged in the world! I look forward to hearing about you!
ReplyDeleteI agree. Who'd have thought? Looks like you have yourself pretty well situated. Good luck on your path up the chain of command! Nice to hear from you!
ReplyDeleteLeslie, I look forward to following this. From the years I spent as a nanny (not a mother I know, but six years with three kids that I still cherish), I heard this complaint a lot from mothers who gave up their climb up the corporate ladder to devote time to their family - it's a difficult dicision and one that, unfortunately, is often undervalued. I can't imagine how busy your family keeps you - but I also know that I have yet done anything at work that has resulted in the same fulfillment I received when those kids I used to watch over would beg for me to tuck them in at night, or when their faces would light up when I picked them up from school, or the fun sticky and playdough filled hugs and kisses! Love you my dear, and good luck!
ReplyDeleteThank you, Kerry! I know you have filled a spot in the hearts of those kids! It was a tough decision for the family, but one that I will never regret. I just want to use my brain a bit more, that's all. Well, the extra cash will be nice, too. Next time you come out here, drop me a line. I love reading your and Kelly's posts on FB. Looks like the two of you have your lives in order. Whenever I have a chance (right), I would LOVE to come out to the big city again! Keep in touch, and tell Kelly I said, 'hi'! Love you!!
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